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The Best Gifts for Every Love Language
When picking out a Valentine’s Day gift, consider your loved one’s love language. Whether it’s words of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts, quality time, or acts of service—we have gift ideas that will make them feel extra special this February.
At a Glance
- Choose an Olive Tree for words of affirmation to symbolize a growing and lasting sentiment.
- Gift long-lasting blooms or a monthly plant subscription as an alternative to temporary bouquets.
- Provide plant care tools like leaf care spray or a moisture meter for acts of service to help nurture their indoor jungle.
- Opt for touchable, velvety plants like the Alocasia Black Velvet or Ficus Audrey for physical touch.
- Book an online plant workshop or a virtual expert appointment for quality time to grow a hobby together.
In his 1992 book The Five Love Languages, author Gary Chapman concludes there are five distinct ways humans express their love and ask for love to be expressed back. All five ways, which Chapman calls languages, are enjoyed to some degree by everyone, with varying levels of importance, however, a person will usually be drawn to one primary language.
The five love languages are: words of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts, quality time or acts of service. Keeping your loved one’s primary love language in mind will help you pick meaningful gifts for Valentine’s Day and beyond.
Gift Idea for Words of Affirmation
This Valentine’s Day, say 'Olive You' in a way that grows more beautiful with time. Whether you choose a petite tree for their desk or a stately large specimen as a centerpiece, an olive tree is the perfect gift for someone whose love language is words of affirmation.
Already have an olive tree at home? Give it some extra affection with our Olive Tree Care Kit, designed to keep your tree thriving. Or, if you’re looking to transform your outdoor space, try adding an outdoor olive tree to your patio or garden this season for a touch of Mediterranean romance!
Gift Idea for Receiving Gifts
If receiving gifts is your loved one’s vibe, surprise them with a blooming plant that lasts far beyond the fleeting beauty of a traditional bouquet. Anthuriums, Bromeliads, and Orchids are all relatively easy to care for as houseplants and can bloom multiple times throughout the year.
To truly let the love continue, gift them a plant subscription so they can be surprised with a new plant each month—a constant, living reminder of how much you care long after Valentine's Day is over.
Gift Idea for Acts of Service
Whether you choose to perform the acts of service yourself or gift your partner the tools for a perfect plant-care day, these essentials are a must! Our Leaf Care Spray is perfect for cleaning and shining foliage, while our moisture meter provides much-needed confidence for those who worry about overwatering. Pair these with a functional grow light to ensure their indoor garden thrives through every season, making it a thoughtful gift that truly keeps on giving.
Gift Idea for Physical Touch
For those whose love language is physical touch, choose a gift that invites them to reach out and feel the love. Opt for a Ficus Audrey or an Alocasia Black Velvet, prized for their luxurious, velvet-like leaves that are as soft as they are beautiful.
For a truly hands-on experience, you can even put together a custom potting bundle featuring our premium potting mix, stylish planters, and essential care supplies, giving them everything they need to get their hands in the dirt and connect with their inner gardener.
Gift Idea for Quality Time
If quality time is the love language that speaks to your loved one, consider snagging a ticket to one of our online plant care workshops to learn something new alongside your favorite person via Zoom.
For a more tailored experience, you can also book a virtual appointment with a plant expert; it’s the perfect way to join a session together and get personalized tips on your specific collection while spending meaningful time growing your hobby as a pair!
Grow Your Love Story
No matter how your favorite person prefers to give or receive affection, there is a plant—and a gesture—to match. Whether you’re getting your hands dirty together in the soil or sending a monthly surprise that keeps the romance blooming, these gifts are more than just greenery; they are a way to nurture your relationship.
Ready to find the perfect match? Check out our full Valentine’s Day Collection to explore more botanical favorites and thoughtful care essentials that will make this year’s celebration truly grow.
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